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Did Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries really get a divorce!?

Taylor Asked: Did Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries really get a divorce!?

Did Kim really file for divorce? Are they really getting one or is this all lies from the media?!?

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Posted by admin - November 1, 2011 at 9:30 pm

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When or will my wife’s affair end?

Panther 135 Asked: When or will my wife’s affair end?

Bottom line is she is divorcing me. She has been unhappy. I think its mainly do to our lifestyle changes. At first we were very home bodied and low key. Then we both went transferred to a 4 year college and entered into a click of high rolling, partying gym rats. We became more like boy friend and girlfriend. Our morals started to fade little by little. Any woo. We started to drift apart due to work, school, conflicting schedules, and the gym. I noticed she started to spend all her time with this new click and working out has become a top priority, which isn't a bad thing. Then in July right around when we graduated she said she is not in love with me and that she developed feelings for our friend the personal trainer. He is actually a very shy and nerdy guy. He doesn't fit the trainer profile, but is in very good shape. Looks nothing like me, but personality wise we are identical. Funny thing is that I want to get into personal training and he wants the degree I just got. I could see he was very interested in my wife from the get go, but she didn't find him attractive at first. They developed an emotional affair. She started to mope and cry about how unhappy she was and sure enough dude was there to be her shoulder to cry on. To make matters worse, turns out she popped his cherry. I seen texts, Facebooks, caught them in the act. She is unusually attached to this guy, like "I can't live without you" and "I miss you" stuff. This is his first relationship, so he imagine what he is thinking. It seems like she is getting all the attention she wants from him like she is her new husband. There is no breaking through to either of them. I even tried counseling with our church and no budge. However my wife and I are still friends. I dont hate her and I actually still want to make this work, but I need a dance partner in this tango. Surprisingly she accompanies me to church now, to the untrained eye we still look like a married couple. I'm moved out and living my own life. She texts me her and there about how I'm doing and life.

Its been 3 months now and I got alot better emotionally. I actually fessed up and apologized to her about my part in the failed marriage. I never cheated on her but I have done other stupid acts to damper our marriage. I take responsibility on my end, but this affair she had is all on her. Now that I found another gym and deleted my facebook, it seems like the two are parading around like a real couple. Our mutual friends are shocked and are weirded out by the situation. From what I here from my buddy is that they hardly socialize with anyone, they just stick to themselves. Sometimes she even lets it slip that he doesn't feel comfortable with her going to church with me and not to tell me about his faults (Which she does). Already he is over protective and other stuff. She knows the pattern yet still is in the relationship. There are times when I still get intimate with her for brief moments, and we kiss. Then she says she feels like she is cheating with me? She said she is not going to fall into his arms and settle right when the divorce is final (Which she is doing now). She also speaks of moving away and joining the LAPD or the Military and stuff.

From what I'm reading is that she does and doesn't know what she wants. I understand she is 24 and has her whole life ahead of her. We are best friends and she even told me that she is not throwing the idea of us reuniting in the future. I dont know what to believe, but I know that she is leaving me and I'm not waiting around for her. I love her but if somewhere down the line I fall in love with a nice girl I dunno if I would pass on that opportunity.

From what I told you, you think that her affair will last? How long? Or what do you think will happen? I'm just curious.

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Posted by admin - October 24, 2011 at 3:30 pm

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Why do many people have such a huge prejudice towards divorced people?

Creamy Strawberry Asked: Why do many people have such a huge prejudice towards divorced people?

After all, society has been approving of more and more depraved behaviours, so why is there still a huge prejudice against divorced people?

(Just for the record, I'm not divorced…)

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Posted by admin - October 19, 2011 at 9:00 am

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Why is he wanting to drudge up old memories?

jtoddmelody15 Asked: Why is he wanting to drudge up old memories?

several years ago i found out my husband had been having an affair.My response to finding out was to also begin an affair. (Don't judge me, I know 2 wrongs don't make a right.) After 4 months of the affair and openly being all over each other when we were out around my husband (my husband's good friend) we stopped seeing each other and he just fell off the face of the earth.I ended up falling in love with him after the second time we were together which is not like me at all.I got the same signals from him right before we quit seeing each other.He even mentioned to me that this he was in deeper than he had planned and didn't know where we went from here.

I confronted my husband and told him what I had done and we divorced.the guy I saw contacted me about a year after the divorce and I told him that i was willing to get together if he was and he said he was scared to get serious with anyone because he had been divroced for a long time and it really hurt him when she left.

i found out later that the reason she left him was because she was sleeping with my ex husband probably around the time our child was 3.His most recent affair that caused us to divorce was when our kid was 10 but was not with her.I felt so stupid.I felt like I was used.it was like my lover used me to get back at my ex husband for sleeping with his wife.

When he called me and said he thought he was ready to move forward I let him go and told him what I thought about what I had found out about his ex wife, my ex husband and us.it was like he fell off the face of the earth.I moved on and remarried someone else and had not heard from him for over 3 years now.

today I was getting gas at a local station and there he was.I suppressed a lot of my feelings for him in order to move on with my life.I took time away for myself to get my head together before i moved on.I didn't go into my marriage blind.The feelings are still strong and i wished they weren't.We just stared a minute and I begged him in my mind not to come over and talk to me because i had my kids with me and I didn't want to explain it to them.

My husband knows about him and knows the whole story.I came home and told him I saw him and that we didn't speak to each other.I didn't lie to him nor have I ever lied to him.

the look on my ex lover's face surprised me.it was like something out of a movie.My ex husband called me this afternoon and said he had called him trying to get my phone number but he didn't give it to him.

What is my ex lover thinking?

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Posted by admin - October 17, 2011 at 2:00 am

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If a boy want to marry with his father’s brother’s wife after their divorce is it ok?

Kaushal Kumar Asked: If a boy want to marry with his father’s brother’s wife after their divorce is it ok?

I want to marry with my aunt and she also want to marry with me after taking divorce from his husband who is the brother of my father. Is it possible ? Reply me soon!

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Posted by admin - September 22, 2011 at 1:30 pm

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How to attract Gemini man back again?

earthmetaphorm Asked: How to attract Gemini man back again?

I'm a scorpio woman. We're in our mid 30's.Known each other for 7.Dated, been in relationship on and off for 2 years.Lived together a little.Connected as friends and musicians first collaborating. lots of laughs, never fought, very compatible.He's in love with me, made promises to me, came at me hard.I've never pressured him with anything, even though underneath I've been in love with him and want him and only him.He's committed to me and talked about marriage, kids, that this is it…. then he got busy with a job…. Then he said he needs space, don't wait around for him, to do my thing, it's not about chicks, just his own space.

H'es left before.He's avoided even his guy friends before.Before he broke it off, we didn't talk for 5 or 6 months or so.He dated a couple women and knew it wouldn't last.When we reconnected this is when he came on hard. It was different and it felt much more genuine. He said the search is over.That I'm the one. I don't think it makes sense that he'd manipulate me to get in my pants or whatever..it's been 7 months or so of consistent loving and being in a relationship, that he wanted!!Then he just ended it out of no where.I know he has issues with a divorce and missing his son.I hope I havent' been played.We have a lot of mutual friends, I'm not a hookup.and have the respect of his family, brother, friends….

how do i attract him back?
I'm not going to seek him out.
The only place we run into eachother is, sadly, facebook… so what can I post on my page to attract him?I know that sounds lame…
I've got a lot going on, i'm independent.What do you think?

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Does infidelity matter in custody battles?

Raveing Asked: Does infidelity matter in custody battles?

My pot-head, self-centrered idiot mother is totally convinced that the fact that she has cheated on my step dad with 14 men won't matter when she try's to get custody of my baby brother in the divorce. True? False?P.s. In Oklahoma

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Posted by admin - September 9, 2011 at 1:00 am

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