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who do I claim child support from?

clare Asked: who do I claim child support from?

Wondering if someone could give me a hand.

I fell pregnant in 2007 with my boyfriend we broke up and I found out I was pregnant by accident. He was informed but told me he didn't want anything to do with him. I have asked him a couple of times a year for the past 4 years if he wants to see our son but he doesen't at all HE HAS BEEN HANDED EVERY CHANCE.

I got married to my new boyfriend right after my son was born and as my ex was not planning on raising him and we were married the office official said to put down my husbands name on the birth certificate. I have been informed this legally means he is his father due to time elapsed, us raising him ect.

Well myself and my husband are getting a divorce after I caught him cheating and I will be needing some money to provide for my son as well as help me out (i have been a stay at home wife for 4 years as our son is autistic)

When I get divorced who do I ask for child support from my husband who has helped raise him for 4 years, who has paid for everything for him and is on the birth certificate

or basically my ex who is an unintentional sperm donor.

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Posted by admin - October 29, 2011 at 4:30 pm

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my father is a british citizen he was a British citizen at the time of my birth bt i born in an othe

She Asked: my father is a british citizen he was a British citizen at the time of my birth bt i born in an othe

My father came to UK in 1966 and he became British citizen in 1969. After that he married my mother in 1977 in Pakistan. My father got two daughters from my mother. Then he left my mother with out give her a divorce and marries in Pakistan with an other woman and registers her in UK as his wife and got a son from her.
Now I am 30 years old here in UK as a student doing my MBA specialization in Project management, which is almost in its completion phase. And I want to claim my birth right as British citizen but my father who always kept us deprived of our registration in UK . He is evasive and not helping us to give us his nationality passport copy so I can attach it to my application and send to home office.
I try my best he is not refusing me as daughter but he dont want to give me his help in this regards.I went to his home but seem like no hope from there.
Now I am writing because I am really dishearten and I am having this birth right to a bored here according to the British law. I am ready to have DNA test. Or go through any test to prove me his daughter.
The documents that I got my parents marriage photo the marriage certificate their property documents that my father give to my mother .
I got my passport my ID card my birth certificate and education transcripts, which is showing me as his daughters.I can provide my mother and sister documents which shows the same scenario.
Now can you tell me what should I do and do we have any legal rights according to the British law in this case to claim the British nationality as birth right even if our father is not helping . If yes then how should I apply .
If no then where should I go for justice which door should I knock for justice .

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Posted by admin - October 25, 2011 at 8:00 am

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Should I let my daughter know of my ex-wife’s adultery, that I may not be her or her brothers father

jinglin jimmy Asked: Should I let my daughter know of my ex-wife’s adultery, that I may not be her or her brothers father

My wife had a baby girlin the 70s and i was over the moon until one day I overheard a confession by her to a friend that she was in love with a work colleague. We had a helluva row and she left me.
I kept the little flat going and tried everything I knew to get her to return but she said she would never come back to me. After a year I decided to cut my losses, gave up the little flat and moved to the other end of the UK. I had no sooner got settled with lodgings and a job when I received a letter from her asking, if I wanted we could try again and to return immediately. I didn't need to be asked twice, I was on the next train. My son was born exactly 9 months later. two weeks premature, she said. However, I wanted our marriage to survive and I swallowed her explanation, only for her to divorce me two years later. So. should I explain to them about my fears and ask them for a paternity test, as I do not want to go to my grave with unanswered questions.

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Posted by admin - October 23, 2011 at 5:30 pm

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Please read! Very important.?

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Is it harsh for me to say that I HATE my own father?

He left my family and I abandoned, for his mother.Yeah, I understand it's his mother, but she would basically manipulate my father into believing that my brothers and I weren't his children.He has gone to say so many harsh things in front of me and my little brother's face, such as; I want a DNA test, your mother has slept with so-and-so he's your father, etc.

Not only has he done that, but after getting a divorce from my mother, he married a women for money. To bring her into to the US, and lied to us about it. He has lied to us sooooo much that I CAN NOT trust him. I haven't talked to him in over 3 months, and not once has he come over to see how we were. He doesn't care about us! The only thing he cares about is himself and money.

and the funny thing of it all, he goes to CHURCH.He's so hypocritical.

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Name of a yaoi manga?

lokijum Asked: Name of a yaoi manga?

I forget the name of this manga but i can describe it pretty well, please help me figure out the name.
Its about a guy living a normal life, going to school… when his parents who had been divorced decided to remarry and join the family together again. His little brother avoids him, they haven't seen each other in forever…
moving on though.. At school one day his little brother gets into a fight, suddenly he feels pain and realizes its in the same place his brother was hit. He begins to realize all the random unexplainable pain over his life may of been his brothers pain. Later you discover the little brother also feels something but not pain. Its because they were born on the same day i believe, so they're astrological twins.

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Posted by admin - October 6, 2011 at 2:00 am

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Is this called cheating? Can I forgive it?

Jayant Asked: Is this called cheating? Can I forgive it?

I had sex with my wife on July 2, 2010. Later on August 6, 2010 with protection. She is pregnant. Doctors said due date was May 24, 2011. Later it was shifted a bit to June 2, 2011. Finally she delivered on June 3. There is complete lack of communication from there side. I am confused if the baby is mine. Our relation were strained last year. She is living with her parents since then. Yesterday she misstated that we last stood together till August end while I am sure that she left on August 6. I used to drink that time. She feels i'll forget the dated. But events are recorded based on sms i sent to her. Should i cooperate with her lies till i get DNA done or catch her now. In that case i feel she will not come to me. How can i take DNA then. BUt in the past whenever i suspected her, i was wrong or rather could not find anything serious. She is not giving me medical papers.

As we go, our relationship is already over. She is caught. Now i am thinking of her and child's future. I know she gave me all chances during our stay together to seduce her. But i did not understand. I always thought why is she resilient towards sex. Finally one day we fought when i demanded sex. And she left next day. She told some days later that she'll come back in two months and need some time separate. After that what happened I had already told. She took all precautions that I should not know of her cheating and accept the child without knowing the truth. May be she is repenting. May be it was one night stand. May be she got raped and did not get courage to tell me or anyone. She tried to abort the child at their relatives place but they refused to take responsibility and sent her at her parental house. May be there even she did not tell the truth and went on with the delivery. Now i am clear from her behaviour and facts also, gyna opinion also that all is over.

My question is: IF SHE TELLS THAT ALL THAT HAPPENED BECOZ I DID NOT CARE FOR HER AND SHE LEFT IN ANGER AND NEEDED SOME SUPPORT. SOMEBODY MAY BE HER EX SUPPORTED AND IT HAPPENED. BUT SHE IS REPENTING AND HAD SEVERED ALL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THAT GUY WHICH IS EXPECTED AS NOBODY WILL TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF SUCH AN ACT IF HE IS MARRIED.
IF MARRIED MAY BE HE MARRIED HER. SHOULD I PARDON HER MISTAKE IF IT IS ONE TIME AFFAIR AND SHE GOT PREGNANT OR ANYHOW REGARDLESS OF MY FEELING TOWARDS HER, I SHULD DIVORCE HER WHICH IS QUITE EASY IS SUCH CASE OF ADULTERY IN INDIAN LAWS. BUT I LOVE HER FOR HER NATURE AND SPECIALLY BECOZ COULD ENJOY HER ONLY 4 TIMES IN OUR 3 AND HALF YRS OF MARRIAGE.

She says i dont trust her and I should think whatever i want about whether child is mine or not she doesnt care.

I DONT KNOW WHY I FEEL SHE GOT SLIPPED AND DID SO IN ANGER OR MAY BE WAS USED BY SOMEONE UNDER PRETEXT OF HELPING HER IN DESPERATE TIMES WHEN SHE NEEDED MAXIMUM SUPPORT.

ANSWER WOULD BE HIGHLY APPRECIABLE.

BUT SOMEHOW I STILL FEEL SHE MAY BE INNOCENT?

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Posted by admin - September 16, 2011 at 3:30 am

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Is this called cheating. Can I pardon this?

Jayant Asked: Is this called cheating. Can I pardon this?

I had sex with my wife on July 2, 2010. Later on August 6, 2010 with protection. She is pregnant. Doctors said due date was May 24, 2011. Later it was shifted a bit to June 2, 2011. Finally she delivered on June 3. There is complete lack of communication from there side. I am confused if the baby is mine. Our relation were strained last year. She is living with her parents since then. Yesterday she misstated that we last stood together till August end while I am sure that she left on August 6. I used to drink that time. She feels i'll forget the dated. But events are recorded based on sms i sent to her. Should i cooperate with her lies till i get DNA done or catch her now. In that case i feel she will not come to me. How can i take DNA then. BUt in the past whenever i suspected her, i was wrong or rather could not find anything serious. She is not giving me medical papers.

As we go, our relationship is already over. She is caught. Now i am thinking of her and child's future. I know she gave me all chances during our stay together to seduce her. But i did not understand. I always thought why is she resilient towards sex. Finally one day we fought when i demanded sex. And she left next day. She told some days later that she'll come back in two months and need some time separate. After that what happened I had already told. She took all precautions that I should not know of her cheating and accept the child without knowing the truth. May be she is repenting. May be it was one night stand. May be she got raped and did not get courage to tell me or anyone. She tried to abort the child at their relatives place but they refused to take responsibility and sent her at her parental house. May be there even she did not tell the truth and went on with the delivery. Now i am clear from her behaviour and facts also, gyna opinion also that all is over.

My question is: IF SHE TELLS THAT ALL THAT HAPPENED BECOZ I DID NOT CARE FOR HER AND SHE LEFT IN ANGER AND NEEDED SOME SUPPORT. SOMEBODY MAY BE HER EX SUPPORTED AND IT HAPPENED. BUT SHE IS REPENTING AND HAD SEVERED ALL RELATIONSHIPS WITH THAT GUY WHICH IS EXPECTED AS NOBODY WILL TAKE RESPONSIBILITY OF SUCH AN ACT IF HE IS MARRIED.
IF MARRIED MAY BE HE MARRIED HER. SHOULD I PARDON HER MISTAKE IF IT IS ONE TIME AFFAIR AND SHE GOT PREGNANT OR ANYHOW REGARDLESS OF MY FEELING TOWARDS HER, I SHULD DIVORCE HER WHICH IS QUITE EASY IS SUCH CASE OF ADULTERY IN INDIAN LAWS. BUT I LOVE HER FOR HER NATURE AND SPECIALLY BECOZ COULD ENJOY HER ONLY 4 TIMES IN OUR 3 AND HALF YRS OF MARRIAGE.

She says i dont trust her and I should think whatever i want about whether child is mine or not she doesnt care. But keep sending her monthly payment and keep 7 lacs ready for her future and since i suspected her loyalty trust is over and she wont come back to me again ever.
ANSWER WOULD BE HIGHLY APPRECIABLE.

BUT SOMEHOW I STILL FEEL SHE MAY BE INNOCENT?

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Posted by admin - September 14, 2011 at 7:30 am

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