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Open marriage conflict?

Flirting Asked: Open marriage conflict?

My husband and I are in an open marriage. Our number one rule for married people that we date is that their spouse must be aware of the situation. No cheaters allowed. My husband met someone online. After chatting and finding that they had a GREAT connection he tells me the only problem is that her husband does not know, BUT he thinks that he can convince her to talk to him about seeing other people. I VERY RELUCTANTLY concede and let him meet her. Turned out that she played games with him and he does not want to see her in person again. HOWEVER, even though I want to contact to end, he insists that he does not want to burn bridges with her and WILL continue chatting with her online. I am right to be angry about this relationship continuing even though it will be online only?

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Posted by admin - October 26, 2011 at 5:00 pm

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Marriage, Taxes & Financial Aid?

Jane Asked: Marriage, Taxes & Financial Aid?

My boyfriend is in the army and we have been talking about getting married before he deploys next year. We were wanting to get married before the end of this year, but I'm concerned about a few things:

1. I held my first job this year, so that means i'll have to file a tax return next year right? If I'm filing my own tax return does this make me an independent and my parents can no longer claim me on their taxes?

2. If we got married, we weren't planning on telling my parents because my mom's dead set on me being done with college first. Our plan is to do it in the courthouse & than have an actual ceremony a few years down the road…The only problem with that is, I think my mom claimed me on her taxes for this year. How will this affect us if we get married this year? Could that somehow lead to investigation by the IRS and her finding out about our marriage?

3. And lastly, will getting married effect the amount of financial aid I get?? I currently am a full time student paying for my own tuition. The only source of income would be my boyfriends paycheck since I don't hold a job during the academic year, but we don't want to use that to pay for my tuition. So my question is, would I be better off filing my FASFA for the year before I got married or would I possibly benefit and get more financial aid by filing my FASFA afterwards?

I need expert advice!! Thx

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Financial Aid, Marriage, & Taxes?

Jane Asked: Financial Aid, Marriage, & Taxes?

My boyfriend is in the army and we have been talking about getting married before he deploys next year. We were wanting to get married before the end of this year, but I'm concerned about a few things:

1. I held my first job this year, so that means i'll have to file a tax return next year right? If I'm filing my own tax return does this make me an independent and my parents can no longer claim me on their taxes?

2. If we got married, we weren't planning on telling my parents because my mom's dead set on me being done with college first. Our plan is to do it in the courthouse & than have an actual ceremony a few years down the road…The only problem with that is, I think my mom claimed me on her taxes for this year. How will this affect us if we get married this year? Could that somehow lead to investigation by the IRS and her finding out about our marriage?

3. And lastly, will getting married effect the amount of financial aid I get?? I currently am a full time student paying for my own tuition. The only source of income would be my boyfriends paycheck since I don't hold a job during the academic year, but we don't want to use that to pay for my tuition. So my question is, would I be better off filing my FASFA for the year before I got married or would I possibly benefit and get more financial aid by filing my FASFA afterwards?

I need expert advice!! Thx

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Why isn’t my husband attracted to me after having a baby?

Frustrated Asked: Why isn’t my husband attracted to me after having a baby?

My husband and I just had a baby 2.5 months ago.I have two children from a previous marriage, and never had any complaints, so I am confused. He's only initiated sex a couple times, and has actually turned me down when I do. We actually had an argument about it, and he basically told me it doesn't feel the same. I was furious. Then he tried to retract and say he just has a low sex drive and he's always been that way. We've only been together 2 years, but before I got pregnant, we always did it at least once a day. I still have 11 lbs to lose, but I'm not fat by any means. Help me, I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm going to end up cheating or something. I love and enjoy sex, so it is a very important part of my life. Well not now Lol, but I wish it was.

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Posted by admin - October 13, 2011 at 3:30 pm

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Can I get a divorce now.?

Steffy Asked: Can I get a divorce now.?

I've been married to my husband for 4 years now and we we're together for 10 month before we got married the relationship went very, very well. Before we got married we both decided to have a private wedding that followed Islamic and Jewish laws on getting married (as my husband is Mulsim and I come from a secular Jewish family) but not a legal one. After a year of being married under Islamic and Jewish law we decided to make it official, we didn't have no problems until my husband took a job in New York and asked me to go with him, I didn't want to but I did. After 4 months I became really, really home sick and moved back to London to be closer to my family. We spoke on the phone when ever we could but that got allot harder when I took a new job which took up most my spare hours at home making it really hard to talk to my husband. We recently saw each other for the 1st time in months and we went for a short holiday in Jerusalem, during the holiday a day before we left and both went back to our homes (I was going London and he was going straight to New York) I couldn't sleep. I decided to go through his phone to look at pictures he'd taken of us on our holiday. Then is when I saw about 12 naked pictures of a girl all taken between a week and 3 weeks before our holiday. I didn't talk to him about it because I was in shock and really couldn't believe it, and I really didn't want to believe it. I really think he has cheated on me now and I don't want to be with him any more. I spoke to my local Rabbi and Imam (head of the local mosque) who've both told me our marriage can be ended and I can get a divorce under Islamic and Jewish law. Can I get a divorce under British law as I got married in London legally.

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Improving non existent self esteem?

DJ Asked: Improving non existent self esteem?

I'm 30, this is something I suppose kicked in when I was 14-15 and well its pretty mush ruined every area of my life.

I failed all my exams at school as I figured "I'll probably fail them anyway so whats the point" as a result I've just floated from 1 dead end job to another. Driving same issue, "I'll probably fail so whats the point". I have never once asked a female out, "She'll probably say no so whats the point" I've pushed all friends away so now I have none. As a direct result of all this I've been unable to achieve anything in my life, no decent job, no house, no car, no vacaction, no marriage. My self esteem is so low I won't even talk to attractive members of the same sex at work as I figure "They wouldn't want to be seen with me"

This is all just a brief summary of what my life is like, I am on the train to no where fast and I don't know how to get of.I have social anxiety and depression, I don't know if these are caused by my low self esteem or vice versa.

Any help would be appreciated.

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I think my marriage may be over?

Yomy Asked: I think my marriage may be over?

Hi, im 22 years old and my husband is 23. We've been together for 4 years, living together for 3 years and married for 3 months. I live in orlando and he stays in Jacksonville like 3 hours away because he works, Ive been living basically by myself for almost a year now and i kind of got used to being on my own, for the first time I have my own friends and to not feel alone all the time i go out dancing or have a couple of drinks (but its not often). He don't try to impress me anymore, to dress good, or to take me out more often, he is no romantic at all, i love him but i just don't feel that spark anymore, and we have talk about it this past month but things just get worst. He wants an answer tonight but im confused, i don't know if to stay with him try to work it out (but what happens if i don't feel the same about him?) or if I get a divorce (would it be the right decision?) or should i tell him to start all over again? Can somebody please give me an advice.

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Posted by admin - October 4, 2011 at 5:00 pm

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My boyfriend of 5 months is legally seperated…not divorced..?

SASH Asked: My boyfriend of 5 months is legally seperated…not divorced..?

I have been seeing someone now for around 5 months.
I am 25 and he is 51. I know there is a large age gap but i actually do love him for who he is (Plus he does look great for his age)
Anyway i have never been married before so i never really knew the full meaning of what it is to be legally separated but reading in to it, it basically means bottom line he is still married.

I dont know what to do, The feelings are still there of course but i never looked at him as a married man until now.
I have asked him why he doesnt get divorced yet and he answered '' because i have not found anyone to marry before so i have never really needed to''

Please someone give me advice!
Be nice but be straight.

Best answer will be given for sure!

Sasha

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What should i do because this guy wont commit?

Hummingbird Asked: What should i do because this guy wont commit?

I have been dating this guy long distance for about 5 months. I have known him for about 5 years.He got a divorce from his wife of nine months about 2 years ago. She was having an affair and now he is very cautious about committing. He is in another state and will be moving to a different state in a few months. I have visited him a couple times. We talk for several hours everyday on the phone together. He has asked me to move with him wherever he goes. He says he likes me and wants to spend more time with me. He has told all of his family members that he is serious about me. But he still will not call me his girlfriend. We have talked about it and he says that he doesn't want to put a label on it because we are not physically together and that he doesn't want to do "something stupid while out with the guys". I know thats not good but should I just be happy with what I have or move on?

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how do i save my marriage?

Karla Gallion Asked: how do i save my marriage?

whenever my husband and i have a problem i bring it up nicely and he totally just flips out thinking and saying to me that im just starting drama so now i just avoid telling him anything if i have a prblem i keep it to myself. talking things out in a marriage is imporatant bu whenever i try to talk things out hey usually just end up worse;/ some how i'm always to blame. any tips on what i can do to help? also whenever we fight he always tell me "i don't want to be with you' i don't know what to do. i want to save our marriage for the sake of us and our 2 month old son. he has an ager issue and i really just wish he would respect me more. whenever he gets really mad he calls me names and puts me down. i'm at the edge.

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Posted by admin - September 26, 2011 at 4:30 pm

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