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What is better for a man as regards marital status………..?

I know everything Asked: What is better for a man as regards marital status………..?

What is better for a man as regards marital status?

Just think about this from a western viewpoint with all the legalities, and compare the advantages/disadvantages between being married and not being married.

In western society with all the legal processes, marriage is such a fragile, stressful, uncertain, disloyal, non-committing type of arrangement. I suppose on the up side there is a possibility it may work, but there is no denying that a women will always has issues to deal with, and there is always going to be a stress to deal with in keeping the woman thinking that she is happy. It's too much to deal with; there is enough sh't in life without that.

Conversely, a single person never has a legal issue with an arrangement of this type. A single person does not have the figurative ball and chain that they have carry around to persecute themselves with. A single never has to worry about a knife in their back from those who are playing the part of your best friend. On the down side, I suppose there is the issue of loneliness.

But in the end you have to wonder which is the lesser of the two evils?

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Posted by admin - November 1, 2011 at 9:30 pm

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Please help is our relationship over?

Annie Asked: Please help is our relationship over?

My partner (up to last night) and I have been together for 18 months after having come out of long marriages and then divorced.

Our relationship has been challenging at times but we have always got through it. We had plans for the future and I guessed we would be together forever.

However, last night he split up with me over what I think is so trivial. He was watching footie in my house with my 2 boys who are 10 and 12, I went and had a bath. His 22 year old son popped round and we weren't expecting him.

I went downstairs and said 'hello, how are you?'. He completely blanked me. I saw red – he was in my home and didn't even have the decency to say hello.

I went back upstairs. A few minutes later my partner came up and asked what was wrong. I said I was cross that his son ignored me. With that, he shouted that he didn't ignore me, and told him to go home as he wasn't wanted here. I told my partner to calm down as he was raging, and he said it's over. He never wants to see me or my boys again and took all his belongings from my house.

I am so confused. How can he end it over something stupid and the night before telling me his son drives him mad and he can't wait for him to move out so we can be together. He has booked tickets to take my boys to a big footie game on Tuesday and they were really looking forward to it.

Please help – will he calm down and come back to me or is this over? We have had similar rows involving his son and we have always worked it out. My boys are confused too.

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Posted by admin - October 20, 2011 at 7:00 am

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