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I cheated on my wife after 15 years of being faithful is there forgiveness? ?

Jason Asked: I cheated on my wife after 15 years of being faithful is there forgiveness? ?

We were having problems in our marriage I met someone it started out as just being someone to talk to as time went on we got closer then we should have I started to listen to her and not my heart. I ended up leaving my family in search of happiness I lived with this woman for a few months. It made my family fall apart I hurt my wife and kids out of my selfishness. After the first few weeks past my wife and I became better friends then we had been in years. I've cut all ties to the other woman and just want my wife. What do I do?

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Posted by admin - October 18, 2011 at 5:30 am

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Do you feel as though a woman compromises something when she lives with a man before marriage?

Madgie cake Asked: Do you feel as though a woman compromises something when she lives with a man before marriage?

I understand all of the practical reasons for it– save on rent, "see if you can live together," etc..but statistics prove that marriages end sooner if couples lived together before marriage, so just discount that one right now…

In my personal opinion, I do feel as though it is disrespectful. It is along the same lines as sleeping with a man before monogamy….. I think you should be in a relationship before s.ex and I think you should be at least engaged before moving in together. It's all about levels of a relationship…and for him to not put a ring on her finger before cohabitating is the same as saying, "I'm not quite sure if you're wife material yet, but you're good enough for a rent break and regular s.ex…………" *cringe.* Being "in a relationship" is fine for a while, but I just can't imagine being with a man for longer than four years before being engaged, regardless of age. Just put a ring on the girl's finger! At least make the DECLARATION! even if you can't walk down the aisle for a couple more years. You wanna save money, do it right? Fine. But I'd never let myself be called "girlfriend" for more than four years. Engagement or gtfo.

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Posted by admin - October 17, 2011 at 6:30 pm

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Why does my husband chooses his friends over me_?

selina quintanilla Asked: Why does my husband chooses his friends over me_?

My husband and I have been married for 2 years together for 4, we have a 1 1/2 year old little girl and we are a young couple, my family moved states when i was about 17 and he followed along to be with me, left his job school everything after a few years in this new state we got married had a baby ETC. . . we didn't know anybody here it was just me and him and i liked that. when i was pregnant with our baby there was a few times that after work hedidn't come home until 4 or 5 in the morning to be with some of his new friends i gave him hell about it and for the next year or so he didn't ever do it again. This year has been a hard year for us we almost split up.Through his job he has met a bunch of people. He met a good friend and they became buddies well the thing is his friend is very irresponsible and cheats on his wife all the time, i didn't want my hubby to pick that up so i disliked that they hung around all the time. So his friend has a "friend" that is our age and she was diagnosed with "MS" my husband and i grew alot of love for her (i became a real good friend to her i thought) , behind my back they were both seeing each other and communicating with each other my husband confessed to me that he had a little crush on her i went CRAZY i kicked him out ,she kept it away from me as well as he did, I confronted her and she told me she didn't like him back (BULLSHIT RIGHT?) that she was just there to listen to him and that she never told me because she didn't want me an my man to fight, blah blah blah some bullshit (that just showed me that she was never MY friend after all) . My husband said they never did anything not even a kiss or hug that he was just confused because me and him were going through so much and she was always there to listen. . So due to that we almost got a divorce, my husband begged for a 2nd chance and he is the father to my child and the love of my life. we worked things out and its been like 4 months since that. Well now she is starting to come in the picture again because my husband is starting to talk to his buddy again (which is her roommate) . My husband said that his buddy is his best friend and that he is not going to stop talking to him because of what happened (because its not his fault) He doesn't lie to me he tells me all the time he go's over there and stuff but Im nervous and confused and really angry, i keep asking him why are you doing this? you know i don't trust you because of what happened and you are making it worst by hanging around with them ( she is in their group of friends and they all knew her and my husband were seeing each other behind my back) he tells me that they are just his friends and i shouldn't trip
last night it was a chicks party and they all went out to a bar he asked me permission to go and i told him i cant control you, so if you want to go WELL GO he took it as a yes. He came back and told me all the fun they all had and and that he wasn't near her at all i was just miserable hearing it( i wish i could of went, but like i said i don't affiliate with them anymore and Im sure they don't like me) so i feel that my husband should lose connection with them because it almost ended our marriage. If i had a group of friends that didn't like my husband (which i had before and i cut out of my life ) i wouldn't be their friends because my hubby is more important to me. I need advice ;/ why does my husband chooses his stupid friends over me what do i do i know we are young (22) but i know better then that, and he doesn't ? . GRRRR please help me out guys

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Posted by admin - October 5, 2011 at 8:30 pm

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Should there be a law requiring married women to stay within 15 lbs of their wedding day weight?

Madge Pie Asked: Should there be a law requiring married women to stay within 15 lbs of their wedding day weight?

A recent study revealed that just over 50% of men would leave their wives if they gained weight.

Do you condone their decision? So much for "til death do us part.."?

Do you think that something about a woman's weight should be incorporated into wedding vows? Such as, "I promise to love and honor you…unless you get fat"?

Do you think that weight gain is viable reason for divorce and should the man be compensated, with the woman's assets, in the divorce settlement since it's her fat fault the marriage ended?

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Posted by admin - September 22, 2011 at 1:30 pm

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Some relationship advice?

Spicebabie Asked: Some relationship advice?

Okay! my boyfriend got his green card and went to the States in June, he said he hasn't gotten it yet so he can't come back until he does, we're in September, and my friend got through and got hers within a month, does it take different time for different people?

Anyway, my boyfriend has 2 kids, one went up with him, and the other is just the age of our relationship (3 years old), apparently he didn't tell me until we were very much in love (you know how it is, inseperable, when you've started) and way into the relationship already, because he didn't want to lose me (he said).He says that she left him for someone else, she's living with the man, but pregnant.All along I thought I was going to give this fella his first baby.It destroyed me, our relation is the only long-term relationship i've been in, but definitely not the first person i've loved, it's just that because of my christian home, I couldn't go on with the kind of fellas I chose.

However, since after finding out about (kids), we had arguments quite a bit because of circumstances that showed itself concerning his baby-mamas and kids (yep, two different girls) but he's desperate to keep me, despite me trying to end it a few times.He's a very nice person and often said he'she know he's found a 'good' thing and would do everything to make it work and if he could change his past he would.

I need some advice on how to deal with step-kids and what to expect, what was your experience, and if I should really step into marriage with him, his 2 kids and baby-mamas-drama! I'm 24 and he's 31. Please tell me the worst that can happen with me in the middle there!!!!!

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